This is not the first time he did this. In fact, he has been doing this since he was 8 months old. But now his action is getting intense as he is gaining more strength to push me away. Do you know why my Kenji boy is doing this to me? Just because I…
……cuddle his mummy. We do not cuddle when he is in front of us, because knowing him, he will push me away. I do not want him to hate me for cuddling his mummy. But last Sunday, he refused to sleep and ran away from mummy. Hence, wifey thought of leaving him to play on his own for a while, do not bother about him and turned herself to cuddle me.
My immediate reaction was throw my arms on her, and as soon as he saw me cuddling his mummy, he stopped everything. He come back to us and hit me with his hands. Wifey ask me to ignore him, and that is where things come worse. He mess up my hair, smeared my face with his saliva filled hands, keep on pushing me away, and finally broke into tears. I left wifey’s embrace, and he quickly cuddle his beloved mummy like a cute little bear. He fall asleep after that inside mummy’s embrace.
I always tell this to wifey…you belongs to your Kenji boy!
p/s: I’m not envy, in fact glad that he is so close to his mummy. Wifey breastfeed him for one whole year before calling it a journey. She read, sing and sleep to him every night. Hence, it is absolutely normal that he have such reactions. Thanks to my gold medal wifey for taking care of our Kenji boy so well.